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Maybe she's Maybelline~~~

"Roses are red, violets are blue,
Sugar is sweet, and so are you
The roses have wilted, the violets are dead,
The sugar bowl's empty, and so is your head
The roses stink, sorta like sheep
But leave your head down rolling the hill
The roses are molding, the violets are rotten
And I might kick your arse, if I haven't forgotten."



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How to Keep the Sparks Alive in a Long Term Relationship

Tuesday, March 31, 2009

4:56 PM

For most men, the conquest for the woman's heart ends at the wedding altar. The beginning of marriage spells the end of romance. After a while, the daily routine becomes boring and predictable. Complacency is what kills romance in a long-term relationship. Never allow yourselves to take each other for granted, and always make that extra effort to be romantic and sweet. You don't have to get stuck in a romantic rut.

Here are five kinds of rituals to add sparks of romance into your relationship: quality time, words of affirmation, gifts, acts of service and physical touch. Do it on a daily basis. Sustaining a long-term relationship ought to be a daily conquest.

Quality Time
Be there for her. Your presence is more important than your presents. Ask her how's her day. When she tells you her problem, don't be in a hurry to tell her the solution. What she wants is not your solution, but your listening ear. Set aside time for romance and intimacy. Schedule a regular date. Recreate the first date. Plan other fun, exciting or unusual things to do together - watch the sunset, bring a blanket for a picnic or rent a bicycle built for two. Share your daily activities. Eat together. Share your jokes. Learn something new together, e.g. to reach a fitness goal, to take up dancing lessons, to volunteer in community works, to take up part-time studies together.

Words of Affirmation
Appreciate your wife and compliment her often. Notice the little changes like a new hairdo, a new dress or a new dish. Resolve conflicts quickly. It's ok to disagree. When you argue, don't bring up past issues. Never end the day with anger. Thank her for something everyday. Every evening before going to sleep, tell her what you appreciate about her.

Gifts
You don't need to give her big expensive gifts to make her happy, just regular little ones will do. Know what she likes or dislikes. Surprise her with little love notes (in her pillow, briefcase or book), a card, an email, her favourite musical CD, or her favourite food or snack. Bring home a special treat like durians. Surprise her with flowers. Diana revealed the most romantic gift he received for her birthday. "He wrote a love song and played his guitar and sang it for me. He also recorded it to a CD for me. It was so beautiful."

Physical Touch
Touch her often. Hug, cuddle, snuggle, touch, stroke. Give warm hugs; it's good for health. Kiss regularly. Kiss is the food of love. Set the mood for the night with soft music, scented candles, a warm bath, clean, soft sheets and wear something sexy. Take bath together. Give massages.

Sharon is pleased with her husband's daily ritual. "He kisses me before he leaves to go to work even though I am sleeping and don't know that he kisses me but he says it is just in case he doesn't come home... God forbid something bad happens to him." She said.

Romance is like a flower. Treat it properly, nourish it and attend to it everyday. If you don't it will wither away.

~Sam Choo The WOW Coachsam@wow-her.com.sg

Ignorance is the best medicine

Thursday, March 05, 2009

9:42 AM

Yawn... waiting for my flight back to Singapore now and my legs are aching.
Was at Hong Kong for a workshop recently and glad that it was so fun!
Nice overseas colleagues and everyone was working towards the same aim
Market visit, chatting, and learning new things...
Hopefully i will get another chance to come again...or maybe next time i will get a chance to go somewhere else again.

Just been to Boracay recently for a beach relaxation trip
Oh boy...it is such a beautiful place
Clear sea, powdery white sand and friendly people
What more can i ask more?
But the journey to there is quite troublesome though (btw i booked my own flights, boat and taxi), so it will be better to travel with a tour group or some friends who know the way.

Heard news from several friends that they had gotten a flat but waiting for their boyfriends to propose. I don't understand why Singaporeans have to do it a different way. How did this culture ever appear in the first place? How can the guys be so unromantic!? Don't all of you understand that you have to propose first? Have to ensure both parties be 100% comfortable, in love and committed with each other in the first place before making such a decision? And buying a flat in SIngapore is not cheap lor... humpf! Don't you know the troublesome process of cancelling the flat in the end? And when you get the keys to the flat, the girls will be waiting for their bfs to propose. I mean what can the girl say if he propose? It's like tying them down and giving them no choices to refuse your OFFER. Sounds like some transaction to me.

XXX

I know that you have your own goals, and i had mine of course
Seems and sounds different
I don't know how long it will last
but hopefully, something works out though
I do aim for the same goals as you but it's going to be quite difficult to accomplish if you are going to be impatient or non-understanding.
I have my own fears and concerns and it's not something that can be solved overnight
Hopefully, you can give me some time to think about it and also need to convince myself what i really want. FYI, my first priority is my career for now.
But somewhere, I just felt unjustified somewhere
Everytime i've been trying to change for the better but you are always expecting more
Changes are not made overnight, let alone a week, a month...
Some habits can be improved after a period of time (probably years)
but every time, you expect more and more and more.
It's like temper. A person growing up in his 20+ years can't be expected to change immediately. Basically, it's like a drug.
I'm already trying my best to speak up and reason with you. But it's not fair if you keep wanting more.
Sometimes, i really don't know what you want. That's probably why you always say i'm insensitive.

Anyway, I better stopped writing for now. Somebody kept staring at me. Bet he wants to use the internet... :P

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